Valence: What's My Ex Thinking

Your ex's behavior isn't random. Valence reads it. They texted after weeks of silence. They viewed your story. They unfollowed you. They went completely quiet. Each of these means something different depending on where your ex is right now. Valence tells you which phase they're most likely in, what the thing they just did means on their side, and what your move is. KNOW WHICH PHASE YOUR EX IS IN After a breakup, the one who left usually goes through the same stages: relief, distraction, curiosity, comparison, soft checking and more. Valence maps eleven phases with day windows and shows where your ex most likely is today, based on how long it's been and what they've done since. SOMETHING HAPPENED? GET THE READING Tap "Something happened" whenever they do something: a text, a call, a story view, a like on an old post, an unfollow, a message through a friend. You get a reading in seconds: - The verdict, in one line - What it means on their side - What not to misread - What to watch for next - Your move now THE STRATEGIST One coach that reads texts, screenshots and silences with you. Paste their message or send a screenshot and it tells you what it means and whether to answer. Ask "what do I say" and it helps you write the reply. It remembers your story and keeps you on no contact, and tells you plainly when a rare exception applies. THE TIMELINE All eleven phases, with day windows. See what your ex has likely been through, what usually comes next, and when. Everything you log stays on the timeline with its reading. PREDICTIONS THAT GET CHECKED Each reading ends with the next likely signal and when to expect it. When the day comes, Valence asks whether it happened. NO STREAKS, NO HOMEWORK No mood tracking, no journaling tasks, no therapy speak. Just their side, read plainly, and one clear move. HOW IT STARTS Five quick questions. You get your first reading. From then on, tap "Something happened" whenever they do something. PRIVACY No account and no email needed. Your answers, logged events and coach conversations are saved so the coach remembers your story. Delete my data in Settings removes them. Full policy: https://thevalenceapp.github.io/thevalence-privacy/ PRICING Weekly subscription with a 3-day free trial, or a one-time lifetime purchase. You can cancel anytime in your Google Play subscriptions. If you cancel before the trial ends, you are not charged. Valence is built on patterns, not promises. It tells you what usually happens on their side and when, so you stop guessing.