Swayamvar

Swayamvar is a live-event matchmaking experience rooted in the Indian Swayamvara tradition. You choose your partner in person, at a curated evening event — not by swiping through photos on a screen. WHAT MAKES IT DIFFERENT • No swiping, no chat. Real people, in real rooms, having real conversations. • No appearance-based judgement. When browsing invited men, women see only age and an AI-generated compatibility summary — no photos, no location, no bios. The decision to invite him is judgement-free. • Video-call verified. Every attendee goes through a short video call with our team before an invitation goes out. No fake profiles. • The diya is your signal. Women light a virtual diya for each man they find compatible; men see only an anonymous count, never who lit the diya. • Choose in person. On event night, after curated conversations and activities, each woman picks three men she'd most like to share dinner with. A single dinner partner is revealed — the person she actually wants to know better. HOW IT WORKS 1. Sign up with your phone. Complete a short bio + one clear face photo. 2. We schedule a short video call to verify you. 3. Once verified, you're eligible for upcoming events in your city. 4. Women browse invited men (age + AI compatibility only) and light diyas for the ones they'd like to invite. 5. Men with diyas get invited and pay to attend. 6. Event night: dressed elegantly, real conversations, curated activities. 7. Each woman picks three; the AI-scored compatibility engine assigns dinner partners. Names are shared only in person at the venue. FOR WHOM Adults 18+ looking for a serious partner, either for marriage or a committed relationship. Currently piloting in Mumbai; more cities as we grow. SAFETY AND PRIVACY • Every user is video-call verified before being invited to any event. • Names, phones, faces, bios and voice are never revealed to the other side in the app. You share your name in person. • Consent for how your data is used is granular and revokable from Settings. • Report or block any user from their profile; our team reviews every report within 24 hours. • We follow India's Digital Personal Data Protection Act (DPDPA 2023). Grievance Officer is Chetan Amin ([email protected]). WHAT WE ARE NOT • Not a dating app. No swiping, no unlimited matches, no in-app chat. • Not a marriage bureau. We facilitate meaningful conversations at physical events; what happens after is up to you. • Not free forever. Events have a per-couple minimum for the venue's food and beverage. Read the Privacy Policy: https://api.myswayamvar.app/legal/privacy.html Read the Terms of Service: https://api.myswayamvar.app/legal/terms.html